Showing posts with label Relationship/Lifestyle. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship/Lifestyle. Show all posts

Zodwa: My Ben 10 is not chowing my money

Zodwa Wabantu may have a younger man in her life but she says that doesn't mean she's a sugar mama financing her man's lavish lifestyle.


The dancer told Afternoon Express this week that the pair knew each other for some time and used to share their money in the past.

However‚ Zodwa made it clear that she would not tolerate commentary that her new-found fame meant that her man could sit on his bum and spend her money.

"I have a Ben 10. I am happy. He is not a (typical) Ben 10. He works... at the bank. You say he is eating my money. No‚ I don't have money. I have known him for four years. We would eat a R100 together and we would survive on that."

She said that she preferred to date younger men because she was not looking for love or butterflies in her stomach‚ but companionship.
Speaking to TshisaLIVE earlier this year‚ Zodwa also denied that she was dating a Ben 10 for attention.

"I am not dating a Ben 10 because I need attention or looking for love. I know what love feels and looks like‚ that is not what I am after. I am after happiness‚ being in a free space and living my best life."

Sex-toy parties give women a heads-up

If you've ever wanted to have some naughty adult fun with your girlfriends, why not have a sex-toy party?

While it may sound crass and uncouth to some, sex-toy parties can be great, harmless fun with a group of consenting adults - and you could learn a lot too.

This is because not only do you get to browse through a variety of toys in the privacy of your home, but a knowledgeable consultant is also right there to walk you through how everything works!

We spoke to Nicola Byrne who is the founder of Bachelorette, a kinky online store that offers these services and more to women looking to have a good time, while learning and purchasing sexy lingerie and sex toys.

Byrne hosts sex-toy parties, mostly for bachelorettes getting ready to walk down the isle, but says any group of girls can hire out her services.

"I started this business in 2006 after realising that there was a need for women to have fun, sexy parties. At the time there weren't a lot of options for women about to get married, except for kitchen parties that consisted of kitchen teas, and grannies and aunts baking up a storm in the kitchen," she says.
"Meanwhile, men could party it up with strippers popping out of a cake and having a blast.

"I realised that women needed their own fun as well, and the idea of the company was born."

To procure her services, you log onto their website and fill out a request.

You will then be assigned a form to fill out with specific dates and times you would like to host the party.

After making a payment, you are then sent a rules form that outlines what is to be expected and how to toe the line.

"Thankfully, we have never had any incidents where things got out of control, and this is mostly because we tend to arrive just as the party is starting so that we don't have anyone buzzing from alcohol or anything and potentially causing a disruption," she says.

"We tend to not go over the top with our showcases, so we don't bring any sex toys that may be overt or crass. Everything is done very tastefully. One of the demonstrators would then start showing off the merchandise and demonstrating how everything is used, as well as giving some lessons on oral sex and hand-pleasuring techniques.

It is risque, but tasteful, so we often advise our clients to not have anyone at the party who may dampen the mood by being offended."

The Bachelorette has different party options for different prices.

Byrne says they offer silver, gold or platinum packages which all consist of different types of fun.

Each party lasts for about 90 minutes.

"The silver package costs R600 and it is a standard lingerie and sex-toy demonstration party.

"The gold package costs R750 and also consists of the sex toys and lingerie demonstrations, but also hiring out of accessories and a gift card, while the platinum package includes a blow-up doll and costs R850."

Byrne says that for an added fee, one can even include bare-butt butlers to serve the ladies drinks or even hire out their male exotic dancers.

Letoya Makhene: The villain returns to Generations



Actress Letoya Makhene is back on Generations: The Legacy to spice things up. She returns after giving birth to her fourth child with partner Tshepo Leeuw.

Portraying villainous Tshidi Phakade on the SABC1 soapie, she is the pinnacle of super-bitch thanks to the underhanded tricks she always has up her sleeve.

Tshidi has done it all - from passing off her brother Tau Mogale's (Rapulana Seiphemo) baby as her own, to gas lighting her arch-rival Nandi Mabaso (Brenda Mhlongo).

"The week leading up to going back to work, I was having separation anxiety. I don't know if it's age or what's going on but it was a difficult transformation," Letoya shares.

"Fans can expect more drama, more adventures and more bedroom scenes. We are also going to be exploring the sibling rivalry between Tau and Tshidi."

The 33-year-old traditional healer holds the controversial Mamlambo storyline in 2016 as her favourite. The storyline saw her character practising witchcraft with a snake that gave her power.

In one memorable and raw scene, a blood-soaked Tshidi emerged looking like Sissy Spacek from the 1976 cult horror classic Carrie. Instead of Carrie's telekinesis, her weapon of choice was an
albino python wrapped over her neck.

"That storyline challenged me in ways unimaginable. It challenged me because spiritually I'm a traditional healer, but I never go into the dark side," she recalls.

"It was difficult because I feared that it would tarnish my reputation. I feared people making the connection that 'she's a sangoma, so it's her thing'.

"Above all, I wasn't ready to work with a snake. I was very close to handing in my resignation ... but then I went into a moment of prayer asking for the courage to carry the story.

"It was just a moment of me realising how strong I am, because I was able to overcome my fear of snakes."

Letoya points out that she has not been practising as a traditional healer since last year because she "took some time off to have the baby".
She adds that she is in the process of setting up her practice once again.

She reveals that as a public figure that is also a traditional healer, her biggest challenge has been landing endorsements.

"Big corporate companies will always think twice before giving you an endorsement deal because of my spiritual practices. But it's not anything that really concerns me," she explains.

On the show, Makhene has had many steamy on-screen love affairs with leading men such as Vusi Kunene, Vuyo Dabula and Moopi Mothibeli.

Her favourite has been Mothibeli, who plays bad boy Smanga Moroka.

Their characters briefly heated up the screen last year and their love scenes were filmed when Letoya was pregnant.

"I remember I worked with him in the time I was pregnant and not once did I feel unsafe with him," she says.

Letoya started in the arts industry as a musician at the age of nine.

She garnered popularity in 2003 as the host of season two of music show Idols SA, alongside Colin Moss.

After a public hiatus, she returned with the role of Ayanda Diale on Isidingo in 2011.

Letoya is currently working on new music and has just released her single Qinisela.

The song was co-written and produced by her father and veteran musician Blondie Makhene.

"One lesson I learned from my father very early in my career, when he was grooming me that I'll cherish forever, he said to me: 'honey, this is showbiz. The only reason for not showing up is because you are dead'," she says.

Zola Nombona and Loyiso MacDonald the Sexiest women April 2018



Nombona beat out fellow actresses Michelle Mosalakae, Motsoaledi Setumo, Makgotso M as well as presenters Ayanda Thabethe and Bontle Modiselle.

MacDonald was competing against Tiisetso Thoka, Donovan Goliath, Jesse Suntele, Solo and Cedric Fourie.


Past female winners include Boity Thulo, Terry Pheto, Babes Wodumo, Pearl Modiadie and Blue Mbombo.

“This is such an amazing way to start my year. I’m ready to conquer 2018. My hard work in the gym has paid off,” an ecstatic Nombona gushed.

“I’ve been working out a lot and I’ve gotten to a place where I’ve started understanding my body and what my sexy is. Your sexy is you and embracing your uniqueness.

“This is going to bring so much attention – but such amazing pressure. For me it’s about showing the people how important following your dream and working hard can do. I am where I am because I respect my art and people.

“I want to use this title in a way that’s going to change the perception of Mzansi’s Sexiest. It’s not just about celebrities posing in their swimsuits. They should be a responsibility that comes with it to society.”

MacDonald, who follows in the footsteps of past winners Vuyo Dabula, Zwelethu Dube and Siyabonga Thwala, was dumbfounded that South African voted him the sexiest man in land – since he has never considered himself to be hot.

“I have no clue why people find me sexy. I guess it’s a subjective thing, people will find something [sexy] about you and that’s cool,” he said coyly.

“It’s probably because of my character on The Queen (Kagiso Khoza). I’m sure my character (Ray) on Zabalaza helped too because people like bad boys.

“For me it’s always about the work, I consider myself first and foremost an actor. But this is so good for publicity and putting my name out there for people who are not familiar with my work. I appreciate it so much.”

‘Babes Is Not Trying To Be Like Zodwa Wabantu,’ Says Mampintsha

‘Babes Is Not Trying To Be Like Zodwa Wabantu,’ Says Mampintsha! The West Ink leading man came to his artist or should e say girlfriend’s defense after she was accused of trying to dress like Zodwa WaBabntu.


Mampintsha rubbishd the claims saying Babes cannot be compared to Zodwa for a few of reasons. “She is not trying to be like Zodwa. Babes is the same as she has always been. She is not scared of Zodwa because you cannot compare the two. Babes is a dancer and singer, Zodwa is just a dancer,” he said.
Mampintsha says Babes is only wearing less clothes because of the season changes not because she wants to be like Zodwa.

“It is summer now. It has nothing to do with Zodwa because Zodwa doesn’t wear underwear,” he said laughing.

'Leave them to fight‚ I will be back'- Zodwa on Zambia deportation

Zodwa told TshisaLIVE she arrived in Zambia late on Friday night ahead of a scheduled performance in the country on Saturday evening. She was stopped by immigration authorities and escorted to a hotel with no real explanation about what was happening.

"They stopped me at the airport and said I couldn't perform. They didn't give me any reasons. I think our promoters were also in the dark. I didn't even leave the hotel."

Zodwa said a fight ensued between her promoters and Zambian authorities‚ and after hours of discussion‚ she was told she would be put on the first flight back to South Africa.

According to Reuters‚ the reason for her deportation was over concerns about Christian morality and fears that her performance would “undermine national values”.

Zodwa said she was not angry with Zambian authorities and hoped to return to the country soon.

"Leave them to fight‚ I will be back when they are ready to have me. There was so much fighting between them. I am just an entertainer who was invited to perform. I was stuck in the middle of it all. I would love to still perform in Zambia in the future."
Earlier this week Zodwa told TshisaLIVE that she would go ahead with plans to perform in the country‚ despite suggestions that she would not be welcome by authorities over her decision to not wear underwear while performing.

"I think that people are just trying to sabotage me and the event. The underwear thing is my choice and I don't understand why people are so upset. There are Christians who do much worse things behind closed doors."

She said that authorities were hoping to pray for her and cast out her "demons" while she was in the country.

"I will never wear a panty. I won't change who I am for them. Maybe they think they will pray for me or make me better. I survived 2017 and I will survive this year. They can go and f**k off if they have a problem with it."

Usewumfundisi owayekuKhozi


WAYEVELE enalo ubizo uMfundisi Bongi Gumbi-Magudulela owayengumsakazi woKhozi FM, osephethe ibandla i-Africa for Jesus Ministries ISITHOMBE:SITHUNYELWE

USEWUMFUNDISI olekelela nabanye kwezikamoya owayengumsakazi woKhozi FM, osungule nenhlangano yomama yokuthandaza.

UMfundisi Bongi Gumbi-Magudulela (47) osengumholi we-Africa for Jesus Ministries eGauteng, uthe wayevele enalo ubizo ngisho esewumsakazi. Wayaziwa ngezwi elimtoti ezinhlelweni zasemini. Washiya kulo msakazo ngo-2009 eselekelela ukudidiyela izinhlelo. Utshele Isolezwe ukuthi ngesikhathi eshiya uKhozi waya kwiRadio 2000 ukuyokwengamela izinhlelo zeNdebe yoMhlaba yebhola, eyayizosingathwa kuleli.

“Bengivele ngisebenza ebandleni engangikulona, ngilekelela ezinhlelweni eziningi. Kuthe uma kudlula indebe yomhlaba ngabona sengathi akukho okunye okukhulu okusengenzeka kimina, ngabona kuyisikhathi sokufuna amadlelo amasha.

Ngashiya kwaSABC ngo-2012 sengithole inkontileka yokusebenza neTelkom, okwakuyindlela yokungena ebhizinisini,’’ kuchaza uMfu Gumbi-Magudulela.

Yize akujabulela ukungena kwezamabhizinisi, ubelokhu enesikhala esingavaleki enhlizweni yakhe. Kwale noma esontweni sebevule iMedia Desk befaka izinhlelo zokholo eziteshini zethelevishini, uthi asivalekanga isikhala.

Ngo-2014 wabhalisela ukufundela ubufundisi waqeda ngo-2015 wagcotshwa.

Ngesikhathi eqeda ukufunda uthe abanye ayefunda nabo bavula amabandla kodwa yena waqhubeka kuleli abesonta kulona.

“Ngonyaka odlule uNkulunkulu ungambulele ukuthi sengikhule ngokwanele ukuzimela. Ngijwayele ukuyothandaza entabeni, uNkulunkulu okuyilapho angivezela khona okuningi. Ibandla lami lehlukile ngoba nginikwe umbono wokukhulisa ngokomoya abaphuma emaBible College nabafuna ukuqala amabandla.

Ebandleni lami angibavimbeli abantu ukuthi bakhule kodwa asebekhule ngokwanele ngiyabakhulula bayovula amabandla.

Abanye abaholi bayaye bafune kugcwale ibandla ukuze kwande nomnikelo kodwa angibizelwanga kuleyo nkonzo,” kusho uMfu Gumbi-Magudulela.

Enaba ngombono webandla, uthe wambulelwa ukuthi abantu baqala amabandla bengakakhuli kahle yingakho ebasiza ukubacathulisa.

Uthole nokuthi emabandleni abamnyama kugxilwa kakhulu kwezikamoya, kunganakwa ukulawulwa kwebandla nezezimali.

Uthe lokhu kwenza abanye baphume emabandleni ngoba bekhaliswa wukuthi bayanikela kodwa imali abayiboni ukuthi ishonaphi.

“Esikhathini samanje abantu banikela emabandleni ngoba besatshiswa ngokuthi bazoqalekiswa. Ngikholelwa ukuthi ukunikela kusuka kumuntu. Ebandleni lami angizithinti izimali. Ngisho amabhuku omnikelo angihlangani nawo. Okwami wukukhulekela ibandla nokushumayela.”

UMfu Gumbi-Magudulela uthe ukuba ngumfundisi akuyishintshile inkonzo yokuba ngumama ekhaya njengoba umyeni wakhe engabiziwe.

Ngo-2016 wasungula iWoman in Prayer for Our Nation lapho kuhlangana abesifazane bamabandla ahlukene bakhuleke.

Ubuye asebenze nesiteshi samakholwa iTBN Africa. Ngaphandle kobufundisi ungumlimi njengoba enepulazi lommbila nobhontshisi.

Uyashiya umlingisi weScandal


                UKAGISO Modupe olingisa emdlalweni iScandal omemezele izindaba zokushiya kulo mdlalo


UMLINGISI womdlalo iScandal, uKagiso Modupe obelingisa indawo kaMangi, usenxuse abantu bakuleli ukuthi baqhubeke nokumxhasa njengoba eseshiya emdlalweni ngemuva kweminyaka engu-13 elingisa kuwona.
UKagiso ubhale enkundleni yokuxhumana i-Instagram ebonga abantu bakuleli nabaphathi bakhe kulo mdlalo ngokumnika ithuba lokuba kulo mdlalo kusukela uqala.

“Ngiyathemba ukuthi la ngizobonakala khona abantu bazokuthanda engizobe ngikwenza njengoba ngizobonakala kuyo indima yobumnandi. Ngibonga abakwa-e.tv, Ochre Media nabo bonke ozakwethu kwiScandal ngothando abalukhombisile,” kusho uKagiso.

Uthe kulo mdlalo ubeseqophe iziqephu ezingu-3000 okwenze abone kungcono ukuthi ashiye phansi.

“Ngifuna ukubonakala kwezinye izinto ezehlukile kunokulingisa. Kusukela ngesonto elizayo kuzoqala iziqephu zokugcina engizobonakala kuzona. Kuzobe kuyindlela yokuvalelisa kubalandeli bami,” kuchaza uKagiso.

UMichael Pocock wakwa-e.tv ukuqinisekisile ukushiya kukaKagiso emdlalweni.

“Uzogcina ukubonakala kulo mdlalo ngoMeyi 11. Siyabonga ngokuzinikela kwakhe emdlalweni njengoba selokhu aqala kuwo ngo-2005, ufika kwithelevishini. Siyi-e.tv nalo mdlalo, sithanda ukubonga le nsizwa ngokuzinikela kwayo futhi siyfisela konke okuhle ezintweni ezoziqala njengoba ingumuntu onethalente eliyisimanga,” kuchaza uMichael.

Owaduma kwiTsotsi uthembisa lukhulu oluza neThe River


        UMLINGISI weThe River uPresley Chweneyagae osethembise ababukeli balo mdlalo into yamehlo nathi kuningi           abazokufunda kuwoIsithombe: SITHUNYELWE

ININGI labantu kulezi zinsuku lichazekile ngokwenzeka emdlalweni oqale ekupheleni kukaJanuwari, iThe River ekhonjiswa kuDStv, 1Magic (Channel 103).
Lo mdlalo obophele izinkakha zabalingisi asebezakhele udumo kuleli, ufike ngegiya eliphezulu futhi ngendlela oheha ngayo kuba buhlungu uma usuwujwayele ukudlulwa yisiqephu esisodwa sawo.

Lo mdlalo ukhuluma ngemindeni emibili, ophila impilo ephakeme nomunye ohlwempu.

Ukubona abalingisi abafana noPresley Chweneyagae (34), kuwo kujabulise abantu abaningi.

Le nsizwa ike yanyamalala iminyaka endimeni yokulingisa ngemuva kokuduma efilimini ethi Tsotsi, yase ibonakala kancane emdlalweni iNumber Number ngo-2013.
Lokhu kungenze nami ngafuna ukukhuluma nale nsizwa yaseNorth West, ekhulele elokishini iMafikeng.

UPresley uthe ukhuliswe ngunina, nokuthe esekhulile wayohlala ePitoli lapho eqede khona isikole ngo-2003, eFounders Community School.

“Ngikujabulelile ukuthola indawo kaCobra engiyilingisa emdlalweni iThe River.

“Ukuba semdlalweni ofana nalona kube nezingqinamba ngesikhathi siqala kuwo njengoba sitshelwe ukuthi sizosebenza kanzima futhi isikhathi eside njengoba ungeyona i-drama, uyiTelenovela.

“Bekungokokuqala ukuba semdlalweni ofana nalona njengoba mina ngijwayele amafilimu nama-drama,” kuchaza uPresley.

Uthe uCobra okuyindawo ayilingisayo ngumfana ofuna ukuguqula impilo yakubo njengoba bedonsa kanzima ezimalini.

“Ubunzima besimo esisemndenini kubo kaCobra kuyamphoqa ukuthi angene ebugebengwini futhi uma kukhona okwenzekayo emphakathini uhlale esolwa ngobugebengu njengoba esanda kuphuma ejele.

“Ukushona kukayise kwenze izinto zaba nzima kodwa kukho konke ufuna ubulungiswa ngokushona kukayise uThato,” kuchaza yena.

Uthe indawo ayilingisayo uyithandile njengoba ikhuluma ngezinto ezenzekayo emiphakathini esiphila kuyo.

“Luselude ukhalo kulo mdlalo, imidlalo efana nalena uke ufise sengathi ingabukwa yiwona wonke umuntu kuleli kodwa kukhona abangakwazi ukufinyelela kulesi siteshi ngenxa yokungakwazi ukusikhokhela. Kodwa abanenhlanhla yokusibuka ngiyabathembisa basazosala bemangele futhi bazofunda okuningi ngempilo,” kuchaza yena.

Uthe ngemuva kokulingisa emdlalweni iTsotsi, wakhetha ukugxila emidlalweni yasesiteji.

“Ukulingisa esiteji kwaba yinto engiyithandayo njengoba ngaqala ngineminyaka engu-13. Izinto ezenzeka ngemuva kokulingisa kwiTsotsi nami zangithusa njengoba umuntu wayesebizwa zonke izindawo ngisho phesheya kwezilwandle. Sathola ukuhlonishwa ngezindondo emicimbini emikhulu nemincane okuyinto efiswa yinoma imuphi umlingisi,” kuchaza yena.

Uthe wake wanikwa ithuba lokuthi ayohlala emazweni ahlukene phesheya kwezilwandle kodwa wenqaba.

“Uma ulingisa phesheya bangakuthanda besakubukela kude kodwa uma ufika khona ungazenzi lezi zinto abazifunayo bakulaxaze kanjalo. Ngangingafuni ukuzithola sengingenandawo yokuhlala ngenxa yokuthi angisebenzi futhi ngikude nekhaya. Kunalokho ngakhetha ukuvula isikhungo engasiqamba ngegama lami (Presley Chweneyagae Foundation) esisiza intsha efuna ukuthuthuka ekulingiseni esangisiza kakhulu ngathola intsha esengihambe nayo emazweni ahlukene phesheya sifundiswa izinto eziningi,” kuchaza yena.

Uthe okunye okuthele izithelo ezinhle ngokuthuthukisa intsha esikhungweni sakhe ukuthi baqophe umdlalo wasesiteji othi Taken Back The Future, othokozelwe yizihambeli ezehlukene emcimbini, iGrahamstown Film Festival ngonyaka odlule.

“Angizisoli ngendlela izinto ezingihambele ngayo emkhakheni wokulingisa. Ngaphandle kokubonakala kwiThe River, akukho okunye engikwenzayo ngaphandle kokulingisa esiteji,” kuchaza yena.

UPresley uveze ukuthi useyindoda eshadelwe enamadodana amabili.

Uthe uma engasebenzi uchitha isikhathi nomndeni wakhe aphinde avakashele unina eNorth West.

Kubo uthe bane njengoba kukhona udadewabo omdala nabafowabo ababili abancane.

Uthe uyazifela ngebhodwe, uphekela umndeni wakhe noma yini ayithandile ngalelo langa.

Ukushaywa kweChiefs yiPirates ngempelasonto uthe kumphathe kabi ngoba uyazifela ngabafana basePhefeni. Emculweni uthe uzithandela umaskandi nomculo wakudala owaziwa nge-classic.

Uhlehlise ukukhishwa kwe-albhamu entsha ngenxa yokulandelwa ngamashwa


UMJIKIJELWA Ngubane uhlehlise ukukhipha i-albhamu entsha ngenxa yokuvelelwa wumshophi

UKULANDELWA ngamashwa kwesihlabani somculo kamaskandi, uMjikijelwa ‘Ichalaha LikaShafuza’ Ngubane kuphazamise ukukhishwa kweCD yakhe entsha.

UMjikijelwa uthe ukushonelwa yingane eneminyaka emine nokushayiswa kwenye imoto kumphazamisile emoyeni. Echaza uthe, kuqale ngokuthi indodakazi yakhe uThembah (12) ashayiswe yimoto ephuma esikoleni saseDalton, iCool Air Secondary.

“Lo mntwana wayeqa umgwaqo kanti kuzoqhamuka imoto imshayise, walimala esandleni nasemlenzeni.

“Ngokusho kwabantu abangithinta wayelimele kakhulu futhi equlekile. Nami ngangizitshela ukuthi ngizofika engasekho emhlabeni ngendlela ababesho ngayo kanti uzobuye asinde,” kusho uMjikijelwa.

Echaza ngengane yakhe eshonile, uMjikijelwa uthe wathola ucingo luvela kunina, emtshela ukuthi seyishonile kade igula.
“Okubuhlungu abangitshelanga isagula kodwa bangitshela ngoba seyishonile. Ngaphuthuma lapho bebehlala khona ehostela laseBuyafuthi eGoli ngathola ukuthi sebehlala elokishini.

“Ngathi ngibashayela ucingo baziziba izingcingo zami. Ngathumelela unina wengane umyalezo wokuthi kungani bengasatholakali, wathi angidingakali emngcwabeni.

“Njengamanje angazi kwenzekani noma le ngane ishone ngempela noma badlala ngami,” kusho uMjikijelwa.

Uthe uyile kokuzwa kwababonayo bamtshela ukuthi kube yini imbangela.

Uthe iCD yakhe bekufanele iphume ngePhasika kodwa seyizoze iphume ngo-Ephreli 21 ngenxa yokuthi uphuzile ukuya estudiyo.

“Ngiqale namhlanje (esho ngoLwesithathu) estudiyo ngenxa yokuthi ngisaphatheke kabi. Bengingafuni ukukhiphela abantu umsebenzi ongekho ezingeni ngenxa yokuthi angiphathekile kahle,” kusho uMjikjelwa ongomunye wabaculi bakamaskandi asebemnkantshubomvu futhi abayizintandokazi.

Unamaqembu amathathu okunguMjikijelwa, Amangcukumane, Omenzelwa, neChalaha LikaShafuza futhi udume kakhulu ngenoni elithi Bafikelwe, 20 Years Ago nethi Lalilihle Ihhashi Lakho.

Usebuya nase-Amsterdam eNetherlands neqembu lakhe Ondabuzekwayo.

Imizamo yokuthola ukuphawula kukanina wengane ayiphumelelanga.

Ukhule ekhonza kwelaseZayoni uDJ Sgqemeza


                                           USIPHO “Sqemeza” Mbatha

KULELI sonto sikuphathele insizwa yomsakazo Ukhozi FM, uSipho “Sgqemeza” Mbatha.
THOKOZANI MBUNDA (TM): Uzwakala ukhuluma ngoNkulunkulu emicimbini eminingi oyihambelayo, ngabe ungumfundisi yini?

SIPHO MBATHA (SM): Ngiyilungu lebandla elisetshenziswa kuyo yonke indawo, hhayi ngoba ngiwumfundisi.
TM: Ngabe uyilungu laliphi ibandla?

SM: Ngiyilungu lebandla labasindisiwe iPentecostal Holliness Church Olundi.

TM: Uwena wedwa emndenini osindisiwe nokuleli bandla noma umndeni wonke?

SM: Umndeni wami wonke ulapho, kodwa owakithi ukwezinye izinkonzo nezindlela zokukholwa kwethu azifani.

TM: Wakhulela khona kuleli bandla okulona manje noma wahlubuka kwelinye?

SM: Ngakhula ngikhonza eZayoni, nginesithunywa, kuthe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngashunyayezwa ngendlela engayizwa ingasafani nendlela engakhuliswa ngayo ngase ngithatha inkolo yabasindisiwe.

TM: Pho usithola nini isikhathi sokusonta njalo njengabo bonke abasindisiwe ngoba ubukeka uhlale umatasa?

SM: Ngisho kungathiwa ngimatasa kanjani kodwa ngiyaqikekela ukuthi angibi matasa ngesikhathi soMdali, ngoba naye akaze aba matasa ngesami. Ngimthola njalo eseduze kwami uma ngimbiza.

TM: Usuku lwakho luqala kanjani?

SM: Usuku lwami luqala futhi luphetha ngoMdali ngaso sonke isikhathi. Into eyenza ngisho njalo wukuthi ngithandaza uma ngivuka ngiphinde sengilala. Izinkinga zosuku usuke esezazi azihlele ngeyakhe indlela bengakazi abanye abantu.

TM: Abaseduze nawe bayazi ukuthi uyakholwa?

SM: Le nto yenkolo angigcini ngokuyikhuluma, ngiyayiphila ngakho abaseduze nami bayayibona futhi bayayazi.

TM: Uma ungahlangabezana nezinkinga ezingakususa eduze nomndeni wakho nakubantu abakwaziyo ungaqhubeka ukhonze uMdali?

SM: Ezinkingeni engibhekana nazo yila ngithola khona ukushisekela uMdali ngoba ngiyazi konke kusebenzelana kube okuhle.

TM: Yiliphi ivesi elikubusisayo eBhayibhelini?

SM: Ngiwasebenzisa wonke. Kuya nangokuthi ngibhekene nani ngaleso sikhathi. Ngivuselelwa eliqondene naleso simo.

IJoyous nomjikelezo wamadoloha amakhulu kuleli

LIZOQALA umjikelezo walo wokuhambela amadolobha ahlukene akuleli ekupheleni kwale nyanga iqembu iJoyous Celebration. Namhlanje kuphuma i-albhamu ayalo entsha


UZOQALA ekupheleni kwale nyanga umjikelezo wokuhambela amadolobha ahlukene akuleli kweqembu lomculo wokholo iJoyous Celebration.

Kuzothi ngoMashi 30 nango-Ephreli 1, lizojabulisa abalandeli balo eBig Top Arena, eCarnival City.

Leli qembu lizohambela amadolobha angu-8 kuphela kuleli, lizosebenzisa lolu hambo ukwethula izingoma zalo ezikwi-albhamu yalo entsha yesi-22, ethi, All of You.

Ngemuva kokuqopha iDVD yalo ngoDisemba, eSandton Convention Centre, leli qembu selikhiphe izingoma ezimbili ezikuyo le albhamu entsha ethi, Umoya Kulendawo nethi Modimo Ke Lerato.

Omunye wabasunguli baleli qembu uJabu Hlongwane uthe, i-albhamu yakamuva iwukugubha nokuhlonipha abalandeli baleli qembu e-Afrika nasemhlabeni wonke ababaxhase kusukela beqala.
“Nodumo silunika uNkulunkulu okunguye owenze umsebenzi omningi empumelelweni yeqembu.

Kusuka ekuqaleni leli qembu salenza laba ngelabantu, njengoba isihloko sale DVD entsha sithi All for You sikubonga konke abantu abasenzele khona,”kusho uJabu.

Uthe ngaso sonke isikhathi bahlale becabanga abalandeli babo uma beqopha yingakho kuma-albhamu abo wonke belwela ukuthi bahambe phambili.

“I-albhamu izophuma ngoLwesithathu (namhlanje) futhi izotholakala kuzona zonke izitolo ezihamba phambili zomculo.

Siyanxusa ukuthi abalandeli bethu bayithenge ngokushesha ukuze bakwazi ukufunda izingoma ngaphambi kokuqala uhambo lweqembu,” kuchaza yena.

Amathikithi okubona leli qembu bukhoma aseyatholakala eComputicket ngoR200.

#Shedecides calls for change



Former deputy president and UN women’s executive director Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka has called on South Africans to change their attitudes towards women.

Speaking at #SheDecides conference, Mlambo-Ngcuka said attitude change would ensure young people accessed sexual and reproductive health services.

By synchronising the ideals that govern #SheDecides and #SheConquers – an international women empowerment initiative and its local counterpart – the policy gaps found globally, regionally and nationally could be closed
#SheDecides was founded by Dutch minister of foreign trade and international development, Liliane Ploumen, in 2017 to promote the rights of adolescents



  • Stand up, speak out: engaging new positive conversations, celebrating the bold and expressing public support for the rights of adolescent girls and women to decide for themselves.


  • Change the rules: making sure that laws and policies make it easy for her to decide.
  • Unlock resources: getting the money, skills and technical support, from governments, donors, foundations and individuals to secure access to quality information and services.


The global movement #SheDecides has 36 champions, one-third of them ministers of government, and more than 40 000 friends.

Unbelievable amazing Photos



We all have that one pretentious friend who says he’s “living on the edge” and does something stupid like take a swim in a polluted river, right? I don’t know, maybe it’s just me, but I think that this sort of people makes for the best Instagram-influencers! I mean, you have all the ingredients right there: potentially dangerous/funny situations plus a good-looking person (usually) equals an attention magnet! Let them risk their lives and well-being, and we’re just experience those neck-breaking adventures vicariously through their Insta-stories. It’s a win-win for us!



THERE IS NO LAW IN ZAMBIA THAT COMPELS LADIES TO PUT ON THEIR UNDERWEAR – DIFFICULT EDUCATES SUMAILI

Comedian Thomas Sipalo alias Diffikoti says there is no law in Zambia which compels anyone to put on an underwear.

The comedian is responding to remarks attributed to Minister of Religious Affairs Godfridah Sumaili that the South African entertainer Zodwa Wabantu would not be allowed to enter Zambia if she won’t put on her underwear.



Zodwa Wabantu is known for her dances in South Africa and for dressing provocatively without under wears. She is set to make a surprise appearance at Karasa Karayo’s album launch at the weekend at Lusaka’s Hollywood City but uncertainty of whether or not Zodwa will be granted entry into Zambia by the immigration abounds, following declaration by Sumaili that until the South African proves she will be wearing her underwears, she won’t enter Zambia.

Some sections of the media reports that Sumaili says Zodwa is banned in Zambia because she will corrupt morals.But when contacted, Sumaili said Zodwa is free to come to Zambia provided she comes with her panties.


However, in response Diffikoti says wearing a pant is one’s choice.

“… And how many women wear their pants? In whose interest is the same woman (Minister Godfridah Sumaili) stopping Zodwa?,” Diffikoti asks.

He states that those who claim are holy should just not attend the function where Zodwa is set to appear adding that those who enjoy watching nudity should gladly attend to watch the private parts of the South African dancer.

“It’s a free country. Ni Zodwa wanyoko (Does Zodwa belong to your mother?),” The comedian asks using Rupiah Banda’s most preferred choice of words.

And Diffikoti says banning Zodwa Wabantu is yet another misplaced order by what he terms ‘a useless selective ministry’.

Zambia bans Zodwa Wabantu, Africa's most popular nude dancer sex-bombing the continent

Africa's most popular nude dancer, controversial South African entertainer Zodwa Wabantu, has been barred from entering Zambia to perform. She was due to perform in Lusaka, the capital, at the weekend during the launch of a new album titled Pandemonium by Zambian musician Karasa Karayo.


Zambia's National Guidance and Religious Affairs Minister Godfridah Sumaili told state-run newspaper The Times that the government would not allow Zodwa to "strut her stuff anywhere in the country".

"It is clear we are a Christian nation and we uphold the values of morality and ethics… as a nation, we cannot allow such. I mean, someone performing without underwear, there's no morality there," she was quoted as saying.
Wabantu has become famous to some, notorious to others, for her provocative dance  steps with no underwear, and moves that drive men and women crazy. Many describe her as a dancer sexually or sensually bombing the world, or the devil incarnate sent on earth to destroy millions of souls.

Recently, she was banned from performing in Zimbabwe and several other countries are wondering whether she should be allowed to perform there
At some events, she removes her underwear before performing, or while she's performing, as thousands look to see deep inside.

At several performances, security guards had to keep the crowd away from devouring her with their hands and eyes.  Yes, she's seen as a super star by millions, and the devil incarnate by many moralists.

32-year old Zodwa Wabantu, whose real name is Zodwa Libram, is now a global sensation. Reporters chase after her and she's booked every minute and is smiling to the bank. There are so many offers that she can no longer keep up.
Zodwa was born in Dlamini, Soweto and later relocated to Rockville. She left her home when she was 16 and started hustling and living with a friend for a while.

According to The Sun of South Africa, Zodwa says she was raised by her late grandmother, Maureen Ndaba and started working at a now defunct nightclub called The Rock where she was a bar lady. After she failed matric, she studied for a six-month call centre course.

"I was trying to hustle for myself and I tried to make a better life for myself. After working as a bar lady, I felt that I needed a better job. Since I failed my matric, I studied for a call centre course and I managed to get a job at a call centre," she says, according to The Sun.

Zodwa says that she went to Durban through her job and that's where she started her own business of leasing flats, and she rented them out to students.

"I then became a regular at Eyadini hangout spot because of my love for good music and dance. I am now part of the Eyadini family. I don't depend on a man financially, but I'm pushing for a better life for myself and my 11-year-old son, Vuyo," she says.

Zodwa says that she is proud of her body and she does not like putting on underwear as she feels comfortable in her own body.

"My boyfriend knows that I don't sleep around. When I'm dancing, I embrace my body and men appreciate my moves. But I am not there to sleep with them," she says.

Zodwa, who was recently roped in as an ambassador for an energy drink, says that her mission is to get into the world of acting and TV presenting as she wants to build a career in the industry.

"I am a hard worker and I know that I am destined for greater things. I want to push the boundaries to get on TV screens and entertain people," she says.

Zodwa says that she wore that black number at the Durban July with pride and confidence.

"I am not looking for fame and for me to wear my black dress showing my assets was an act of embracing my freedom. I went to the Durban July to work and I didn't go there for publicity or to pose for pictures. Eyadini had a marquee and I had to look after our clients," she says.

Is the Pill affecting your sex drive?

While generally well-tolerated among women, reports of decreased sex drive after going on a combined oral contraceptive pill - which contains the hormones oestrogen and progestogen to suppress ovulation - are not unheard of. 
After having two children, Mr and Mrs Gerald Lim (not their real names) had looked forward to worry-free sex when they started contraception.
But what was supposed to rev up their sex life had the opposite effect.
Weeks after being on the combined oral contraceptive pill, which contains the hormones oestrogen and progestogen to suppress ovulation, Mrs Lim’s libido nosedived and she occasionally experienced discomfort during intercourse. The symptoms put a damper on the bedroom activities of the couple, who are in their 30s.
According to doctors, the combined oral contraceptive pill is one of the most popular forms of contraception used in Singapore.
"Doctors should consider the side effects of female sexual dysfunction when prescribing combined oral contraceptives, say KKH experts"
At least half of urogynaecologist Christopher Chong’s patients who are on birth control are on the combined pill. The majority of them are under the age of 40, and a substantial proportion is unmarried.
While generally well-tolerated among women, reports of decreased sex drive after going on the combined pill are not unheard of. Every year, the Family Medicine Service at KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital (KKH) sees about five to six cases similar to the Lims’. But the figure is likely the tip of the iceberg.
“Due to poor awareness (that the combined oral contraceptive may cause female sexual dysfunction), it is very likely there are many undiagnosed cases,” said Dr Ang Seng Bin, head and consultant family physician at KKH’s Menopause Unit and Family Medicine Service.
Other side effects include headaches, particularly in women above the age of 35, and breast tenderness.
NEW RECOMMENDATIONS FOR DOCTORS PRESCRIBING THE PILL
These circumstances prompted KKH experts to propose a set of recommendations for doctors to consider sexuality-related effects of the combined pill when prescribing it to women of reproductive age.
In a paper published in June in the Singapore Medical Journal, the team recommended physicians screen patients for any existing female sexual dysfunction, and inform them of the possible sexual side effects of combined oral contraceptives before prescribing them.
Women should also undergo regular follow-ups with their doctors after starting combined oral contraceptives.
This would allow those who experience female sexual dysfunction to be managed early, such as by switching to newer-generation combined oral contraceptives or other forms of contraceptives, the authors wrote.
“The reason for taking combined oral contraceptive pills is to avoid unwanted pregnancy while still maintaining a sexually-active life and quality relationship. If the couple’s sexuality is affected, it can have an adverse effect on their relationship,” said Dr Ang, senior author of the paper.
Presently, neither the World Health Organisation nor the United States’ Centres for Disease Control and Prevention mentions the possible effects the combined pill may have on sexuality in existing guidelines, although some studies suggest a link, particularly for women on older-generation oral contraceptives.
The side effect could be due to the pill’s impact on testosterone, a male hormone that is also present in women and which drives libido or sexual desire.
It is postulated that the pill lowers this male hormone, hence decreasing drive, said Dr Chong, director of Chris Chong Women and Urogynae Centre at Gleneagles Hospital. The other hypothesisis that it may thin the vulva (outer part of female genitals), causing abrasions and discomfort during sexual intercourse, he said.
Women concerned about a libido slump should not ditch this birth control option just yet. Dr Ang said the majority of women do not experience side effects and, if they do, most resolve after three months. If symptoms persist, they should consult their doctors.
Dr Chong estimated less than 5 per cent of his patients who are on the pill experience sexual dysfunction symptoms, which are usually linked to the older-generation oral contraceptives that contain high doses of synthetic hormones. The newer options contain “very low doses” of hormones so such a side effect is not common.
“A very small proportion of women may complain of vaginal dryness, perhaps a slight decrease in sex drive and arousal. Usually, these symptoms are not significant. For side effects to occur, one needs to take the pill for many years but many of my patients are not on it for long-term,” said Dr Chong. Newer-generation combined oral contraceptives are also known to reduce cancer of the womb and ovaries by up to 50 per cent, he said. Some brands have the added benefits of treating facial skin issues like acne, regulating menstrual cycle, as well as reducing menstrual pain and symptoms of premenstrual syndrome.
The pill may indirectly increase sexual function in couples, he added.“It takes away the fear of pregnancy, and the couple can throw caution to the wind while having sex.”.
The combined pill is not suitable for women who are forgetful (missing doses makes it less effective), have deep-vein thrombosis, a history of migraines, or unexplained abnormal vaginal bleeding, said Dr Chong.
Women who are already on the combined pill should avoid smoking as it increases the risk of deep vein thrombosis or blood clots in the legs, advised Dr Ang. They should also maintain a healthy lifestyle and diet. If they develop persistent headaches or other symptoms, they should seek their doctor’s advice early. Dr Ang also recommended that women undergo regular follow-ups with their doctors one, three and six months after starting the contraceptive, and at yearly intervals subsequently.
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